Are you coupling up for cuffing season this year?
If you’re unfamiliar with the term, cuffing season is a time when single people find partners to couple up with during the colder months of the year. The season usually goes from October to February so singles don’t have to face all the holidays alone.
This year, you might be even more desperate to find a partner for the holidays. The festive feeling is gone in many places around the world. You might see Christmas lights here and there, but the majority of the celebrations are canceled. If you can’t attend any holiday parties due to the pandemic, you may crave intimacy more than in previous years.
So should you be coupling up for cuffing season?
If you have been by yourself all year because of the coronavirus, being in a relationship sounds very tempting. Even if you know it won’t last, it’s still a relief to have a companion to spend these lonely times with.
If your goal is just to have someone by your side to get you through these cold, difficult months, then go for it!
However, you might be searching for a life partner and feel like you have no time to waste. If so, then it’s a mistake to jump into a relationship right now. It takes time to figure out if you’re compatible. Being with the wrong person for the time being will set you back if your goal is to get married or have a fulfilling relationship with your soulmate.
What if you absolutely need companionship?
I totally understand that it sucks to be alone right now. This year has been extremely challenging for multiple reasons.
If you found a partner you trust, and you enjoy each other’s company, then having a companion during cuffing season is acceptable.
You just have to acknowledge the fact that this probably isn’t your forever person. You must tell yourself that this is temporary so you can get through the next few months.
I know people are suffering, so if you need companionship, then do what you need to do for your own sanity and survival. Make sure to discuss it with your partner so you’re on the same page. You don’t want to lead the person on if you know in your heart that it won’t last.
Coupling up for cuffing season has its benefits and drawbacks. I know you’ll make the right choice for yourself. Good luck!