What is your erotic blueprint? 

Jaiya is a world-renowned sex expert who claims that everyone falls into at least one of five categories, which outlines what turns you on. If you discover which erotic blueprint you prefer, it’ll help you have mind-blowing sex.

Even if you and your partner have different erotic blueprints, you can still give each other all the sexual satisfaction you desire. With love languages, you learn which expressions are most important to your partner and focus on those. It’s the same with your erotic blueprint. Once you learn what your partner likes, you can focus on your partner’s sexual needs and communicate your wants to each other.

Here are the five erotic blueprints:

1. Energetic

Aroused by space, energy, and teasing. You enjoy looking deep into each other’s eyes, and you’re most turned on by light or hovering touches. Too much touch or stimulation overwhelms your senses. Tantric sex, yoga, and meditation all appeal to you, and being fully present with your partner is vital. Spirituality and having a deep connection are both important.

2. Sensual

Turned on by the five senses. You feel the most pleasure from what you touch, hear, see, smell, and taste. Having the right atmosphere puts you in a sexual mood. Feeling a soft blanket, listening to soothing music, watching a gorgeous sunset, smelling your favorite scent, or tasting delicious food can all ignite your desire. Being stuck in your head may be an issue if something is wrong with the environment (feeling a rough texture, hearing music that’s too loud, seeing blinding light that hurts your eyes, smelling something rotten, or eating unappetizing food).

3. Sexual

Intercourse itself is what does it for you. You like to get down to business and have sex whenever you get the chance. You don’t require anything fancy to put you in the mood, and having an orgasm is what you crave most. You’re easy to please, but you may be narrow-minded when it comes to sex. You are used to getting straight to the act of sex, so you tend to be extremely goal-oriented and resistant to trying anything out of the ordinary.

4. Kinky

Excited by the taboo and forbidden. You like to explore your kinky side and have creative, playful experiences with sex. You want to make all your naughty dreams come true. Feeling shame is common if this is your erotic blueprint, and you may be too afraid to share your kinks with others. It’s important to communicate your desires to your partner and work together to have a fulfilling sex life that makes you both comfortable.

5. Shapeshifter

Variety is the spice of life! If you’re a shapeshifter, you enjoy all of the above erotic blueprints. You’re turned on by creativity and adventure. You have the ability to achieve pleasure in all sorts of ways, and because you understand them all, you’re able to please partners of any blueprint. The downside is that you may shapeshift into your partner’s blueprint and then become bored with the lack of variety. Finding an equally adventurous partner is key for this type.

To learn your erotic blueprint, take Jaiya’s quiz. You may already know, but it’s fun to read the questions and discover new things about your sexual pleasure. Share your results with your partner and friends!