Are you falling in love? Have you ever wondered why it’s called falling in love?

If you like to take risks and enjoy skydiving, the thrill of falling for as long as possible may give you a huge rush.

On the other hand, the idea of falling through the sky might be terrifying. You can open your parachute when you get close to the ground, but there’s still a fear of the unknown. What if you fall to your death?

Now compare this to falling in love. You don’t have to take that leap of faith and jump, but then you’ll never experience the excitement of love. If you do decide to jump, it’ll be scary, and you’ll feel completely out of control. But the end result will be worth the risk.

Five Signs You are Falling in Love

1. Fear

You’re afraid of what will happen. The future is unknown. Falling in love is scary, sudden, and uncontrollable. You’re in a vulnerable state as you fall. A healthier way to deal with this is to embrace it and allow yourself to enjoy having no control over your feelings.

2. Nervousness

You can’t sleep. You can’t eat. There’s this constant nervous energy that’s emanating from your pores. You want to be the best version of yourself, but you also don’t want to come across as fake. Should you be mysterious or reveal your true nature right away? You’re anxious about everything.

3. Curiosity

You want to know every detail about this amazing person. You won’t allow yourself to fall in love with someone unworthy, so you study them and ask questions and pay close attention to what they say and do. If this is a potential life partner, you want to do all the detective work before giving your heart away.

4. Sense of Adventure

Falling in love makes you more open to new experiences. Your wild side will pop up because you want to appear to be an adventurous, daring individual. You may suggest creative date ideas that even surprise you, and your hope is that this sense of adventure will be an attractive trait.

5. Horniness

Sex is always on your mind as you fall in love. You crave intimacy and affection, and your five senses buzz with electricity every time you fantasize about this person. Testosterone, dopamine, and oxytocin levels go up, creating lust and attraction and a constant state of horniness.

Everyone goes through different emotions when they fall in love. You could experience all of the above and more, or you might have put up an emotional wall to avoid feeling anything.

Love is risky. As long as you take that step and allow yourself to tumble and fall, you’ll experience the magic of being in love.

What is your erotic blueprint? 

Jaiya is a world-renowned sex expert who claims that everyone falls into at least one of five categories, which outlines what turns you on. If you discover which erotic blueprint you prefer, it’ll help you have mind-blowing sex.

Even if you and your partner have different erotic blueprints, you can still give each other all the sexual satisfaction you desire. With love languages, you learn which expressions are most important to your partner and focus on those. It’s the same with your erotic blueprint. Once you learn what your partner likes, you can focus on your partner’s sexual needs and communicate your wants to each other.

Here are the five erotic blueprints:

1. Energetic

Aroused by space, energy, and teasing. You enjoy looking deep into each other’s eyes, and you’re most turned on by light or hovering touches. Too much touch or stimulation overwhelms your senses. Tantric sex, yoga, and meditation all appeal to you, and being fully present with your partner is vital. Spirituality and having a deep connection are both important.

2. Sensual

Turned on by the five senses. You feel the most pleasure from what you touch, hear, see, smell, and taste. Having the right atmosphere puts you in a sexual mood. Feeling a soft blanket, listening to soothing music, watching a gorgeous sunset, smelling your favorite scent, or tasting delicious food can all ignite your desire. Being stuck in your head may be an issue if something is wrong with the environment (feeling a rough texture, hearing music that’s too loud, seeing blinding light that hurts your eyes, smelling something rotten, or eating unappetizing food).

3. Sexual

Intercourse itself is what does it for you. You like to get down to business and have sex whenever you get the chance. You don’t require anything fancy to put you in the mood, and having an orgasm is what you crave most. You’re easy to please, but you may be narrow-minded when it comes to sex. You are used to getting straight to the act of sex, so you tend to be extremely goal-oriented and resistant to trying anything out of the ordinary.

4. Kinky

Excited by the taboo and forbidden. You like to explore your kinky side and have creative, playful experiences with sex. You want to make all your naughty dreams come true. Feeling shame is common if this is your erotic blueprint, and you may be too afraid to share your kinks with others. It’s important to communicate your desires to your partner and work together to have a fulfilling sex life that makes you both comfortable.

5. Shapeshifter

Variety is the spice of life! If you’re a shapeshifter, you enjoy all of the above erotic blueprints. You’re turned on by creativity and adventure. You have the ability to achieve pleasure in all sorts of ways, and because you understand them all, you’re able to please partners of any blueprint. The downside is that you may shapeshift into your partner’s blueprint and then become bored with the lack of variety. Finding an equally adventurous partner is key for this type.

To learn your erotic blueprint, take Jaiya’s quiz. You may already know, but it’s fun to read the questions and discover new things about your sexual pleasure. Share your results with your partner and friends!

Treat every day like Valentine’s Day.

With Valentine’s Day coming up, you may be feeling pressure to impress your date. Or, you might be depressed that you’re single and lonely yet again.

In grade school, I remember passing out candy hearts to everyone in my class. We all gave each other candy to celebrate Valentine’s Day, and no one was left out.

Then, in high school, I watched as many of my classmates received roses, chocolates, and love notes while I went home empty-handed. I understood what it felt like to be all alone and have no secret admirers. I was sad that no one had any romantic interest in me, and that was the start of my seemingly never-ending single life.

Although I love celebrating holidays of all kinds, Valentine’s Day is one holiday that usually depresses me. Looking around at all the happy couples reminds me how alone I am. Some years I’ve had Valentine dates, but they were never memorable.

During the years I celebrated as a single woman, I treated Valentine’s Day like any other day. I’d hang out with friends, watch a movie, and do whatever I could to take my mind off the fact that this was supposed to be the most romantic day of the year.

When I was in a relationship during this holiday, I felt so much pressure to make this the most romantic day ever.

But then I thought, why should this day be any more romantic than other days?

Treat every day like Valentine’s Day.

Show love for your partner every day. Learn your partner’s love language, and do whatever you can to make each and every day special and romantic.

If you’re single, there’s no need to get depressed over the hype of this day. Instead, you can enjoy your life and show love for your friends and family as often as you’d like.

Date to Find Your Soulmate is available on Amazon!

I poured my heart and soul into this book for most of 2020, and I’m so proud to say that I am now a published author.

Get the book HERE!

As a quick backstory, I have been told throughout my life that I should write a book about my dating adventures. After having a variety of strange dating experiences and a few long-term relationships, I had enough stuff to fill an encyclopedia.

I filed all my dating experiences away in the back of my mind. I decided to become a relationship coach to help others with their love lives, and I used all the knowledge I had gained through my many years of dating to save people from making the same mistakes I made.

Why should you get Date to Find Your Soulmate?

1. It’s a quick read.

Everyone who read it said they completed it in two days. My writing style is simple and straightforward.

2. It’s entertaining.

I get extremely vulnerable and share personal dating stories from my past. You’ll laugh out loud and may even shed a few tears.

3. It’s educational.

The purpose of this book is to teach you how to date correctly. There are helpful tips in every sentence, so make sure you don’t skip any sections.

4. It’s applicable to everyone.

Whether you’re in a committed relationship or still searching for your soulmate, this book will reveal secrets and techniques to help you along your romantic journey.

5. Limited time book launch special.

If you’d like to get the benefits of this book, now is the best time to buy it. For the first week of my launch, you can get the ebook for just 99 cents. Don’t miss out on this great opportunity! Get it HERE.

If you are frustrated with all the dating methods you’ve tried and want to change your approach, this book is for you. You can also schedule a free session with me to discover if coaching is the right fit for you.

I’m excited for you to learn how to date to find your soulmate!