There are 10 reasons you should be thankful you are single right now.
Thanksgiving is coming up, and you may have to celebrate alone this year because of the pandemic. It’s a lonely time, but there are lots of ways to enjoy this time of year by yourself. Being single isn’t a bad thing, but instead, it’s a reason to be thankful!
The movie Planes, Trains, and Automobiles is one of my favorites. In the movie, a guy just wants to make it home to Chicago to see his family for Thanksgiving. He faces all sorts of hurdles along the way, and I love watching the hilarious adventures he goes through. But it makes me question whether it’s worth it to travel during the busiest time of the year. Wouldn’t it be easier to relax at home by yourself?
Here are 10 reasons you should be thankful you are single:
1. Complete control over everything.
You get to do whatever you want and go wherever you want. If you enjoy sitting on the couch all day in your pajamas watching Netflix, you have my blessing to do that!
2. The bed is all yours.
You can sprawl out and have a peaceful night’s sleep without being woken up by snoring or someone else tossing and turning. You can sleep all weekend if you want to.
3. No need to compromise on a movie or TV show to watch.
You get to watch whatever you please. This time of year, I watch every Christmas movie I can find. The cheesier, the better.
4. Order food from all your favorite restaurants, and eat everything yourself.
You don’t have to split the last eggroll, and you don’t have to worry about anyone else’s food allergies.
5. Plan a night out (or in) without needing permission.
You don’t have to check in with anyone before deciding what to do. You can go for a soothing sunset walk without waiting for anyone else to be available.
6. Focus on yourself.
If you’ve wanted to take a class or learn a new skill, now is your chance. You won’t have any distractions as you gain knowledge and grow as a person.
7. Have the life you’ve always imagined.
Want to have a relaxing day sitting in the bathtub and reading a book? Go for it! You deserve it.
8. Explore your passions and hobbies without having to make time for a partner.
Feel free to play guitar (badly) and belt out your favorite songs without any judgment from others.
9. Figure out who you are.
You are a unique individual with impressive qualities. This is the time for you to explore all your values, desires, and goals in life so you can make all your dreams come true.
10. Spend more time with family and friends, even if it’s all virtual for now.
Your loved ones will always support you, so make the most of your time with them. Romantic relationships may come and go, but family is forever.